Do you need me to break this down for you? Stop deceiving yourself by saying, I love my spouse, but I am not just into him or her. Can you hear your own self?
Please, record and listen to your world. Now switch places. How will you feel if your spouse says that? Loved? Or, being used? So, why do you making such stupid excuses?
The love in your heart is useless for as long as it is not expressed. Mindreading is not a requirement for a good marriage.
Don't let all those fantasy stories destroy the foundation of your marriage. Marriage is work. There is nothing about it that is automatic. You are no machine, neither is your spouse.
You have to work at it. You have to work at owning your own body, soul, and spirit. Until you do, you cannot give to your spouse and your marriage.
It's Your Neighbor.
St. Akin de Sage.
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