Are You Building Each Other?

"That is what marriage really means: helping one another to reach the full status of being persons, responsible and autonomous beings who do not run away from life." ― Paul Tournier.

You do know marriage is not compulsory. Right? It is not. No one has to marry. Marriage is always a choice. It always has and always will. That is why it includes a vow.

If marriage was compulsory, then there would be no need for a vow. The vow is because the two are CHOOSING to bind themselves together by the commitment to the vow.

A vow requires definite action steps to accomplish. It has nothing to do with how you feel. You have no other choice but to fulfill the terms of your vow.

Your JOB is to build each other up and help each other face life. You are the partner who makes "two are better" possible.

Please stop living by your feeling. Be the adult and live up to your commitments.

It's Your Neighbor.

St. Akin de Sage.

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