The girls want some fun, not just niceness. The boys want some beauty and not just goodness. That is what makes good girls end up with bad boys. The same reason is why good boys end up with bad girls. Such is the challenge of life.
The men are carried away by externalities and end up marrying the wrong women. They allow themselves to be captives of their weakness. The women are carried away by the flashy, fun and out going men. There quest for prince charming blinds them from seeing through the smoke. The quest for immediate satisfaction by both leads to a lifetime of imprisonment.
Such is the challenge of life, and direction of the work that needs to be done. We need to teach the good boys to add some fun to their lives. Life is not all about work and making money. There is more to life than all of that. There is no crime in adding some fun to your life. Your life needs to be balanced.
In the same token, we need to teach the good girls, there is more to life than just being good and keeping yourself. You also need to be presentable. You need to learn how to take care and carry yourself aright. Let the goodness that is in you show on the outside. Have more than just your body as an asset. Build yourself up and be able to stand on your two feet.
This is just my two cents with a whole lot of love. Hoping it helps someone out there.
How to Avoid Falling in Love with a Jerk (John Van Epp)
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