Questions and Answers (Two): Right Partner?

QUESTION:

How can the right partner be found without much stress?

ANSWER:

There is nothing like something for nothing in life. To find the “right” partner there is a price to be paid. The price is simple, though. It is the price of being the “right” partner yourself. Isn’t that rather simple? You know there is a general saying in “Personal Development” circles. It goes like this, “When the student is ready, the teacher will appear.” In the same token, “When you become “right,” the "right" partner will appear.”

You are the one stopping yourself from meeting the right partner. In life we do not get what we want, or desire. We get that which we attract by the person we are, or are becoming. So, if all the people coming your way are the supposed “wrong” partners, guess where the fault lies? You got it! You are right on the money. The fault lies right where it belongs, “YOU!”

So, the questions to ask include, “What is it about me that is attracting this type of people to me? What is it about me that might be projecting who am not? Am I truly clear on my values? Does my life; my disposition, my appearance and my walk reflect, clearly, what my values are? Where is the conflict coming from? Are my anxieties and my worries having the better of me?”

“Am I clear on the type of partner I am looking for? Am I clear on the type of person this partner will be looking for? Do I fit the billing?”

Hoping this helps in answering your question.

© 2016 Akin Akinbodunse.

Link to the Series:
Questions and Answers (One): Mis-matched Feelings?

Questions and Answers (Three): Begging to Marry?

Other Resources for Further Study:
Addicted To Pain (Rainie Howard)

The Wait (DeVon Franklin and Meagan Good)

Don't Be A Wife To A Boyfriend (Shonda Brown White)